@donw @RickiTarr hear me out: what if your experience isn't universal? what if there are men who've been stuck with narcissist partners abusing and isolating them? or men who've done nothing wrong yet are unjustly barred by family courts from seeing their own kids? could there be men whose families have kicked them out for trying to stand up for the rights of their trans stepkids? there are. and also there are unique stigmas set against men that make dealing with all this harder.